Parents Expectation 父母的期待

In China, most parents keep reminding their children of the great expectation. It is natural for every parent wants their kids to stand out. But the traditional parents often make plans for their children, which is the dream that they hadn’t realized before, so they need their offspring to continue their unfinished dream. Most parents haven’t realized what they do is hurting their babies, as they take away these young people’s freedom. Every child has their own thought and right. As the complete individuality, they have their features and interest. Parents’ expectation sometimes takes away their speciality. Wise parents should not put their willingness to children, but let them make their own choice.

在中國，大多數家長總是不斷的提醒自己的小孩去實現他們的期望。當然每個父母都希望他們的小孩脫穎而出。但是傳統的家長經常是給孩子制定計劃，而這些計劃則是他們年輕時候沒有實現的，所以他們需要后代繼續他們未完成的夢想。大多數家長并沒有意識到他們所做的是在傷害自己的孩子，他們奪走了這些年輕人的自由。每個孩子都有自己的思想和權利。作為完整的個體，他們有自己的特點和興趣。父母的期望有時會剝奪他們長處。明智的父母不應該把他們的意愿強加給孩子，應該讓他們做出自己的選擇。